Awwwwwwww ! Poor me :(

Poor me !

Hey..hey I'm sure you might be looking at poor me..loaded with my books...well, I don't study/read all at one time...It does take time...Yesterday, had an assignment test at the college on Communication...the test was pretty difficult to an extent....As soon as the exam got over guess what we would have planned????Well, you guessed it right ! We planned to go to Hookah corner at Bandra along with 18-20 friends....Loads of shor-shaarba...loads of mastii, music and crap talks...



IT was 2300 hrs and the corner was suppose to shut down....I wanted reach home before 0000 hrs so train was the best option....Had just left from the corner, and guess what???All of sudden it started raining and damn ! I wasn't carrying my raincoat or umbrella....It wasn't raining from last 2 days...so who the hell is gona carry raincoat/ umbrella???Well, I wasn't lucky and these books got drenched in the rain...Soggy pages and dripping ink...I've been trying to resurrect them With hairdryers, Sun, and constant love coz I swear I have really worked hard to complete those journals...Lol...Nothings happening D:

awwwwwwwww...poor me!!!! well, I have an idea...My friends says, I can scare away anyone and I'm a threat to those who don't listen to me...hmmnnn...Lets c.....
dont worry arsh! Lets get some eyeliners and knives and have a party and you'll feel better! then you'll threat your books with them and they will have to dry or die!....and i think the last thning i ruined so badly was my old laptop.....T_T

The Longest tagged thing I've ever done yet

Pleeeease dun send me looooong tags.....Plssssss

So I got tagged by @NoOh whose pretty cool coz he likes mean girls, mint chocolate chip icecream and hates coffee =p like me....he is mah friends younger brother.....

This is like the longest tagged thing I've done yet
Here goes..

01. What time did you get up this morning?
Noon-ish

2. How do you like your steak?
Mine????I like it very much, thankyou! 0_o.....turned vegetarian now-a dayz....ask me bout fish....

03. What was the last film you saw at the cinema?
Tere Bin Laden....Funny ;)

04. What is your favorite TV show?
FRIENDS and almost all the shows I tune my channel to....You know pretty well...Isn't it?

05. If you could live anywhere in the world where would it be?
In an island...w/o any source of communication...everyone keeps talking about but they're too lazy to actually buy it...

06. What did you have for breakfast?
Half a chewing Gum

07. What is your favorite cuisine?
Err.. Which ever has the most spicy taste and smell....

08. What foods do you dislike?
Thai !! Eww eww eww eww eww

09. Favorite place to eat?
Pizza Hut! I always always always find such entertaining freaks there! fun to watch whilst eating ^_^

10. Favorite dressing?
Ketchup?

11. What kind of vehicle do you drive? apart from your most trendy scooty....?
I dont have a vehicle! I dont drive! Okay? Dont rub it in!! :{

12. What are your favorite clothes?
Idk! Ask me about my shoes damnit! D:

13. Where would you visit if you had the chance?
Hersheys chocolate factory or any other chocolate factory.. I'm not picky ^_^

14. Cup 1/2 empty or 1/2 full?
GLASS half empty..

15. Where would you want to retire?
Somewhere with a library/candyshop/shopping mall nearby. Oh, and snowing all year round too!

16. Favorite time of day?
Dawn and midnight.. Peaceful and super quiet

17. Where were you born?
Theres this little remote planet somewhere south of Mars, right before you turn for Krypton and find white clouds and blue ocean called Indian ocean...Yes! Right there!

18. What is your favorite sport to watch?
Wrestling! Yes... srsly...better than cricket....

19. Who do you think will not tag you back?
This is a stupid question. :-/ 

20. Person you expect to tag you back first?
Another stupid question.. Why would someone I tag, tag me back? WHY? x-(

21. Who are you most curious about their responses to this?
I DONT KNOW!!!! STOP ASKING ME WEIRD STUFF U FREAK!! JEEZ!!

22. Bird watcher?
No. But I do keep my eyes open for crows that shits on me every-time I stand under a tree....

23. Are you a morning person or a night person?
Night.

24. Do you have any pets?
Does my brother count? BO..Bo.. he totally counts! :D

25. Any new and exciting news you'd like to share?
  New : I'm getting Married
Exciting : with no one.....:p

26. What did you want to be when you were little?
A psychiatrist or the Queen of the world.... But then i grew up, faced reality and gave up on the whole psychiatrist thing..n_n

27. What is your best childhood memory?
The time I got lost in the amusement park.. Fun for me.. Not so much for my terrified mum..

28. Are you a cat or dog person?
  I like them but from a distance.. A huge distance.

29. Are you married?
Nope.. Unless nightmares about weddings count.

30. Always wear your seat belt?
Never.. If its gonna happen, it'll happen..

31. Been in a car accident?
Multiple times..but it was a rick... Just a scratch though xD

33. Favorite Pizza Toppings?
Mushrooms and/or olives

34. Favorite Flower?
White Roses .. And red from stalkers

35. Favorite ice cream?
Choclate, vanilla and Mint choc chip <3

36. Favorite fast food restaurant?
McDonald's!

37. How many times did you fail your driver's test?
I haven't taken it yet! But I would fail a lot of times if I took it anytime soon..

38. From whom did you get your last email?
From one of mah facebook friend.. He keeps sending me those weird inspirational thoughts

39. Which store would you choose to max out your credit card?
Meh.. I'm not credit card material

40. Do anything spontaneous lately?
I had a LOT of chocolate that couldv'e lasted till next month.. But I got hungry and finished it off ^_^

41. Like your job?
You mean being lazy and doing nothing all day?? Hell yeah!

42. Broccoli?
Ewww.. No thankyou.

43. What was your favorite vacation?
Last year to shimla....Didn't want to come back :(

44. Last person you went out to dinner with?
My best friend

45. What are you listening to right now?
  Big Fm 92.7...suno-sunaao....Life banao....Mah favorite pass time....

46. What is your favorite color?
Black, White and pink.. Mostly black

47. How many tattoos do you have?
None and I don't think I want any.. Unless theyre of creepy clowns :3

48. How many are you tagging for this quiz?
None

49. What time did you finish this quiz?
20.00 hrs....

50. Coffee Drinker?
Ugh... NO...not at all...



Oh finally completed ! And anyone else who wants to do this??????

Thanks..never ever send me such big taggs...Pleeeeeease !

-----Arsh

Knowing Woman isn't a rocket science....

Just need love n care to understand us

She is physically beautiful, she is mentally strong, She is attractive, caring and lovable. She knows how to love and has abundance of love stored in her heart. She is a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend, a daughter-in-law, she's the embodiment of power, stature and love -- everything that epitomizes a woman. She is the most beautiful creation -- with a blend of beauty, sensuality and intelligence."

Ah ! What can be said about that which has been proclaimed, 'Best,' by God, Almighty, Himself.

Born not from the dust of the ground, as man. Nor, as the fowl of the air. Nor, as the beast of the fields. Formed as flesh from flesh. Created in the Image of God. Molded by the tender-intimate hands of the Almighty, Himself. Quickened by His Breath. Alive with soul. Uniquely created for relationship with Man and God. The 'crown of creation' bestowed upon 'Woman' cannot be measured by gold or gems. Her value far outweighs the most precious of them. Her virtues cannot be purchased. Her beauty, unsurpassed even by the most delicate of roses, cannot be captured on canvas nor molded in marble. Though many a gifted artisan has tried.

 'Woman,' wears kindness and charity as ribbons of honor. Her Existence is proof that God extends forgiveness to a world lost in confusion and darkness. A woman's lips can bestow healing peace. The smallest of woman's hands can hold the hope of tomorrow. For in her arms is the security for today.

The most beautiful facts of women for those who say, “It is impossible to understand a women”:

Don’t be surprised to know how women are so wonderfully giving and loving. Their love is unconditional and forever. And once they forgive, they really forget. They don’t dig out the heavy artillery, even when they have the best opportunities to do so.
  

It is lovely how women manage to hear you out for hours. They never pass judgments. Never say you are wrong (even if you have behaved like the worst jerk in the world). And when you ask for their opinion they give it without managing to make you feel a worm. They criticize without wounding.
   

The most adorable thing about a woman is her blush. It speaks volumes and conveys things which even she won’t openly admit too. It is a real turn on when a women blushes at you. It shows she is crazy about you.
   

A smile- when women smiles, she really smiles. No pretences, She smiles from her heart and speaks with her eyes. It is amazing how many ways women smiles. She has a tender smile, a loving smile, a “what will I do without you” kinda smile. The smile that says “Whatever you are, however you are, I love you”…
   

The way they get all in frenzy, when they want to let you know of their achievements. Their eyes say “I want you to be proud of me” but they will die rather than admit it, After all they only wanted to let you know.
   

Try loving a woman when she loses her temper. She gets all fluttered, says all sort of things she doesn’t mean, is generally very harsh and then bursts into tears. Now help me out here, who is one being yelled at????
   

I love the general “do-good” attitude that is an undeniable part of every woman. They are out to reform everyone just to be a “better” person. And will be hurt if you don’t wanna change.
    

I know you may think me a sadist due to this but personally I think the most beautiful and irresistible thing about a woman is her tear. It is guaranteed to break down the hardest of resistances and melt the stoniest hearts. On the other side it also shows the breaking of all the barriers a woman builds up. When a woman cry she open up completely before you and trusts you enough for it.
   

And finally the answer I heard most often, “I can’t tell you any single thing that I love about a woman, It is the perfect mix that makes men go weak-kneed. The sensuality combined with nurturing, the naughtiness combined with caring, the vivacity coupled with quiet understanding. it is very intoxicating. 

Simply adore ME and I'm Happy

Her moods ever-changing as the ocean's tide. 'Woman' is fleeting. Able to only be understood by the God who created her coz to understand her one requires a heart which has only love stored in for her.  Woman- Most beautiful, Most glorious,  Creative of God's imagination, has been given the privilege to bear life from life. . A scene most precious, 'Woman' with a little child on her knee, wiping his tears and kissing his brow. 'Woman,' - unique - no doubt about it, not another creation like her since the beginning of time.

'Woman's ' need for man is only surpassed by man's need of ' Woman.' Without her, his life is incomplete.  So, are you still lingering to understand a woman ???

----------Arsh

People who matters in my life

Peoplecome into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,

to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.They may seem like a godsend and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be.Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

 

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, thing you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Mom n Bro

Choti Mom

Ruby and Balli

Lucky Paaji

Bhabo

                   

Chotti

JAya

Ranveer

Big D

Bobby

Inder and Pammi di

Rajeshwari

 

The Best Relation and the Best Person in my life....

Family is a blessing, relatives are add-ons, enemies are Bonuses ;) , Friends are blessing in disguise and above all comes a Best Friend and the best relation---Friendship...This is only a relation created by almighty which is purely unconditional....And I have the World's Best friend with me....OMG! I'm actually falling short of words to describe this world's wonderful, cute and funny beast in my life. When I get down no one can pick me up likehim. I pity anyone who doesn't have a relationship like we have. We are like one person with two different souls , two different thoughts  living obviously in two separate bodies still we both can understand each other thoroughly, tough we never show off that we are of great understanding creature in this planet... :P . 

Who's he????

His Biography :

Name : Bobby

I call him : JJ 

Looks : Intellectually smart, Handsome, Stylish, at times funny and crazy :)

Intellectually smart

Handsome

Stylish

DOB : 01st January (Year----I'm sure he would not like to see the Birth year as he alwayz wanna stay young)

Qualities I : My best friend has a million amazing qualities, apart from the ones listed above, I also love that he always gets me laughing, no matter how bad things are... even if I'm seriously at the end of my rope just freaking out about how awful my day is,  I swear he can make me laugh and giggle for a good hour by cracking some Phaltu Jokes (PJ) until I seriously hold my stomach that could burst out laughing in pain. Just the mental image still cracks me up. I also love that we both have crazy lives and live 3000 miles apart, but we will both drop everything if we need each other. We could go a year without talking (not that it has never happened) and just pick up like we didn't miss a thing. He's the best.

Qualities II : At times he bugs me off with his stupid behavior...but not his fault..we both are argumentive.....Me and Bobby get into fight over something really stupid, in fact,at times we wonder and try to find out the reason behind the fight. Anyway, I'm gonna forgive him for all the fights that he starts...Lol...;) :P....after all he's my best friend, my bandhu, my JJ and you don't get friends like too often. But one thing is for sure…that we cannot ignore each other more than a day….

Best normal Dialog / word : Hmnnn... Words mostly used by him:

• Kamini
• Nautanki
• I'm sorry (Often used)
• Kya nataak hai (What'z the drama all about) 
• Bol Diya???
• Aur kuch bolna hai????
• Teri toh !
• Achaaaaaaaa...(With smile on his face :)) 
• Ho gaya tera????
• Jo mann mein aaye kar (Do what ever you like, don't ask me)
• Dramebaaz
• Dhokebaaz
• Chal Jhutti

Most Weird Questions : Where-in I've to brainstorm my mind....

• What's cooking between You and Ruby (A girl- friend )
• When will you find a guy for you?
• Aisa kyun hai? waisa kyun hai? Kab? kahan? kaise?
• Question mark? question mark??????

He Loves : Me, his car and his girlfriends...lolz....

He Hates : Well, except me who else can he hate????Cause he loves me the most though I keep on asking him over and over again.

He gets irritated : When he ask me something and I'm silent throughout...Just love to see him getting irritated... I get to his nerves....

Favorite food : Egg...but it keeps on changing, prefer Chinese

Favorite color : Black

I cried : when he lied me that he's going to Canada permanently just to hear me cry and enjoy the situation....$%^&*@#$.....x-(..shudder !

His favorite site : Networking indeed (FB, ORKUT), might be some Gays...oops! I mean some guyz oriented site...:D ;)

Apart form the above likes Music turns him on.....

For me he's a perfect friend, a perfect human being of it's own kind, an Angel...The world's best..the best...the best...the one and only one richness of my life that I could cherish every moment, every second, every minute, every hour, every day, every week, every month, every year, every decade till my existence...the wonderful gift given to me by God...I've been told that God grants 3 wishes so the first wish would be, "He lives long and happy life and be with me always..."

My best friend holds me tight...Tough not alwayz still at times remember to wish me goodnight.... loves me for being me.... won't let me be...wears dark clothes...loves me loads... knows when in sad... isn't scared when I'm mad...makes me smile...would run a mile...is sweet at heart...is also smart...is really tall...will catch me when i fall...doesn't just look skin deep... is not cheap...is one of a kind...has one wild mind (:D)...is in my heart to stay...Will never go away...Once he made me cry...by saying "Last Good-bye".... left a tear in my eye...I often ask him, "Don't u feel shy to make your friend cry??...He is honest and true...just doesn't get the clue...doesn't count my wrongs...feels happy when I write him poem or songs...He is a guy...who does not lie...A friend i wished for in the past...is here at last...gives good advice...is so awesome and nice...doesn't get high...I can never see him cry... He is so strong...almost never wrong...He is "perfect" to say...God guide him night and day... asked if i cried...knows that i lied...I will never let him go away...for he is in my heart to stay...  So, I never complain god for not giving me other riches...He has given me the best friend, best person to stay in touch with, to love with complete purity. It is so natural to get obsessive at times to even share a "Friend" and if Friend is like "Bobby" I shall request god to let the uniqueness be with me. Shouldn't I feel lucky about it???? Happy Friendship week ! With loads and loads of love from....your friend who always like irritating you...I'm sorry for it....but that doesn't mean I'll stop....I'll carry on my good work.... ----Nautanki

My best friend holds me tight...Tough not alwayz still at times remember to wish me goodnight.... loves me for being me.... won't let me be...wears dark clothes...loves me loads... knows when in sad... isn't scared when I'm mad...makes me smile...would run a mile...is sweet at heart...is also smart...is really tall...will catch me when i fall...doesn't just look skin deep... is not cheap...is one of a kind...has one wild mind (:D)...is in my heart to stay...Will never go away...Once he made me cry...by saying "Last Good-bye".... left a tear in my eye...I often ask him, "Don't u feel shy to make your friend cry??...He is honest and true...just doesn't get the clue...doesn't count my wrongs...feels happy when I write him poem or songs...He is a guy...who does not lie...A friend i wished for in the past...is here at last...gives good advice...is so awesome and nice...doesn't get high...I can never see him cry... He is so strong...almost never wrong...He is "perfect" to say...God guide him night and day... asked if i cried...knows that i lied...I will never let him go away...for he is in my heart to stay... 

So, I never complain god for not giving me other riches...He has given me the best friend, best person to stay in touch with, to love with complete purity. It is so natural to get obsessive at times to even share a "Friend" and if Friend is like "Bobby" I shall request god to let the uniqueness be with me. Shouldn't I feel lucky about it????

Happy Friendship week !

With loads and loads of love from....your friend who always like irritating you...I'm sorry for it....but that doesn't mean I'll stop....I'll carry on my good work....

----Nautanki

  

Are we the Lost Generation????

Yesterday, at the Journalism lecture we were asked to comment on "YOUTH TODAY"...It was indeed an controversial debate as there were different age group students with some highly experienced senior journalists. One of our faculty member, age around 42/43 started taking interest in this debate. Many positive as well as negative sides of Youth were discussed...we were just trying to conclude it, suddenly there creeped in a voice , "Youth today is the lost generation"....There was absolute silence...and I very innocently answered, "are we Dinosaurs-the species which does not exist at all???" Well I came home after a long 7 hours of boring lecture by one of our faculty... My mind was repeating the same question over and over again...and I came to may own conclusion....which is :

Today’s youth compromises of maximum population in India. Be it education, sports, entertainment or lifestyle; they represent style, smartness, intelligence, smart work and Higher education. Be it Night-outs, lounging in the pubs, tapping feet to the rocking music in the discs to showing of their cool levis jeans, i-pod, e-phones and woodland shoes or hanging out with their girlfriends or boyfriends. They have it all…..the attitude to win and win….the “keep on trying attitude”…the attitude “We rock” !
Many says, “The youth of today is a lost generation” as they do not possess responsibility towards the society, their lives revolves round entertainment, sex, enjoyment, drugs and ignorance. How true is it? Who is responsible for such behavior? “The Youth?”…. “No…..not the youth…It’s the Generation, Science, the technology and more over lack in education for using such technologies.

I am 24 year old and consider myself “A youth” and considerably think about well-being of the society, think about spending sometimes with parents, think about career, dream and take initiative to plan accordingly. I am not a lost generation!

People who call us “Lost generation” need to keep in mind that each generation of young people have to deal with things that “WE” never did. My parents never had to deal with School violence, local train violence or have to pass through Metal detector or even face hard times to get into well paid jobs. Things have changed drastically. 15 years back our parents had time to think about caste, creed, and culture. They had ample of time discuss about Ram Mandir and Babri masjid, to categorize people into Hindu, Muslims, Christians and Sikhs. It’s the youth who followed “Humanity” as religion. They hang around with friends irrespective of their caste, creed and culture. It’s the youth who have bought revolution against terrorism in the streets.

Gone are the days of going to the drive in movies, or out to make out hill. Today’s youth have to deal with things that could have ever been imagined 20 years ago. 20 years ago, you really didn’t have to go to the college, and if you did you were probably going to be a doctor, an engineer or an executive in some huge turnover corporate. If you take a look at the career site these days and you need four year degree just to be an administrative assistant!

Times have changed, people have changed and it’s time to realize that these are the people who will run the world when we age. It’s high time when we support the Youth of the world instead calling them a “Lost generation”....

Regards
Arsh

Forgive me !

At ma blog after a long time......Loved the feelings so thought to pen down.....

You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.

You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.

Forgiveness brings inner peace.
Do we have a deal??????


Regards,
Arshpreet